Thursday, January 19, 2012

let's start at the very beginning...

I wish that the thing that was bringing me back to my neglected blog was the fun times we had over the holidays! We had a great Christmas and Dean was so fun this year, as he now finally understands the Christmas and Santa Claus concept! But our real adventure started Christmas day with a trip to urgent care for Dean's ears. He had a terrible ear infection and came out with a prescription for Amoxicillin. Fast forward 8 days and Dean wakes up itching himself all over. At first, I thought the little spots were Chicken Pox (just my luck, right?!) but then they progressively got worse. I wanted to wait to take him to the doctor since our old insurance ended January 1 and our new insurance started January 4 (at this point, it was January 3), but the spots were so bad and so itchy that I ended up taking Dean into the doctor anyway.



Remember the movie Hitch with Will Smith? That's what Dean's ear and hand looked like: one big swollen hive. I was totally freaked out, but the doctor decided that Dean was allergic to Amoxicillin and gave him some steroids that began to work very quickly.



Two days later, Dean had been playing in the backyard and he came inside and said that his knee hurt and he couldn't walk. He wasn't crying and kept changing his story so I wasn't sure if he fell or what. I figured he had popped his knee out so we took him to the myropracter right away to get him checked out. By this time, Dean couldn't be moved from one position and was peeing involuntarily. The myro said that his hip and pelvis and knee were all messed up and to take him to the ER right away to make sure there was no fracture.

We spent several hours at Banner Gateway, and even though his x-rays came back fine, Dean still couldn't walk. We ended up getting transferred to Cardon's Children and were admitted there.
Dean got his blood taken and had an IV inserted. By the time we got to our room it was about 2 am and Hudson and I were worried sick. There were a couple options of what Dean could have, but his symptoms and blood work were all telling a different story. Worst case scenario, he could have a septic hip (which is basically a nasty bacterial infection in the hip that would require surgery to remove all the fluid) or toxic synovitis which is a non-bacterial infection that sometimes settles in the hip joint. We were told that Dean would have to get an MRI in order to know for sure what we were dealing with.

The doctors decided (for whatever reason) that they did not want to sedate D for the MRI. This was very worrisome because if he freaked out we would have to come back and have him fast for 6 hours and then get another MRI appointment. This would set the whole process back almost a day. Amazingly, through many many prayers, Dean did awesome in the MRI. I told him it was a rocket ship and he thought he was going on a "mission to mars." Cute kid kept his sweet personality through the whole thing. He loved all the attention and I'm pretty sure he was all the nurses' favorite kid.

Once he was done with the MRI he miraculously started walking again! Very slowly, and with a limp, but we were ecstatic. We finally got the results of his tests back that evening and were able to go home because there was no sign of a bacterial infection!

The past week since we have been home has been an adjustment because there are still days when Dean wakes up and can't walk or is in a lot of pain. We still don't know if the hives and the infection were connected in some way or if he really is allergic to amoxicillin. We have also been doing blood work once a week to see if his levels have changed at all.

This whole experience has opened my eyes. Having a sick baby is terrifying and overwhelming; and we didn't even have to be in the hospital for that long! I have a newfound sympathy and respect for those whose children are chronically ill because feeling hopeless and not having answers is one of the scariest things I have ever been through. I hope I can be as good of a friend to those people as my friends have been to me through all this! Also, prayers work miracles!

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

thankful

This year as Thanksgiving rolls around I am filled to the brim with blessings.

And I am lucky to have visual representation of the biggest of all these blessings.

My family.

an eternal family. forever and ever, amen.



my two cute boys who love each other and the lucky lady in their life (me!)



my first born. my personality twin and best frenemy.

for the bittersweetness of his eyes turning from blue to green, just like my dad's.


for how excited Dean is to be a big brother. the list of things he wants to teach baby brother grows by the day (so far: baseball, soccer, football, playing drums, and playing basketball "but we will need a bigger basketball hoop")

and baby boy.


This all leads me to another of my biggest and best gifts: the Gospel.

My favorite quote from this year's Conference:
"Motherhood is not a hobby, it is a calling. You do not collect children because you find them cuter than stamps. It is not something to do it you can squeeze the time in. It is what God gave you time for."

Friday, November 4, 2011

Halloween 2011

Anyone who knows Dean knows that he is obsessed with sports.

Obsessed.

Our daily conversations consist of "Mom, I want to go see the D-Backs. Is Justin Upton playing? He's my favorite in the whole world."

or

"I'm gonna go see Sparky and then go watch the players in the field and then go in the locker room with them."

Obviously this love of sports didn't come from me.

Anyway, it was only natural for D to be an ASU baseball player for Halloween! My dad bought my oldest nephew all this legit catcher's gear when he was Dean's age and it was so special that Dean got to wear it this year!
He LOVED all the gear. He really wanted to wear his "shim guards" around to trick or treat but they are a little hard to get around in.

Hudson's "costume" is actually his everyday attire. At least he goes to ASU now so he can justify the obsession.

Dean and his buddy Rivers had so much fun trick or treating. We pushed them around in their strollers from house to house so it was a little like "drive-thru" trick or treating. But the boys LOVED it! Dean is already asking to go trick or treating again.

Hopefully he enjoyed dressing up as a baseball player because next year I'm sure I will force him and his new little brother to be something super embarrassing and matchy-matchy.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

snips, snails, and puppy dog tails

The morning of the gender ultrasound is always filled with nerves, excitement and trepidation.

We were so glad to be able to bring Dean with us to find out if he was going to have a little brother or sister (or, in his words, "a poop brother" or "poop sister." WHY does everything have to deal with "poop" these days??)

When we got into the ultrasound room, the ultrasound tech explained to me that she would take all of baby's measurements first and then we would find out the gender.


She put the probe on my belly and I saw "it."
I didn't say anything because I didn't want to seem like a self-proclaimed professional ultrasound reader.

About 30 seconds into the ultrasound, and after numerous wiener glimpses, the tech says, "I am assuming you have seen the gender by now. You're having a BOY!"

Baby boy #2 looks perfect, healthy, and apparently is an acrobat of sorts. He started out the ultrasound being in the breach position but ended it being head down with all the somersaults he was doing!




We were so excited to share our news with friends and family with a gender reveal party!
For those of you keeping count, this is the 5th grandson on my side and the 4th on Hudson's side. We know how to make those boy parts, apparently.


Perhaps the most exciting part about having another boy is that these cute little boys are also getting little brothers within days and weeks of Dean!
Two generations of boys for the Rogers', Allen's and Anderson's!


After all is said and done, I do worry about being a boy mom.
I worry about not being athletic enough, or involved enough, or about walking the fine line between being their mom and being their nag.

But there is something about a little boy and his mom.
There's something about Dean calling me "Mommy" and telling me he loves me "SO much" and saying that "I saved his life" (this morning's latest dramatic quote).
There's something about seeing your husband with your son.
It's magical.
And it's mine!

Sunday, September 25, 2011

the darndest things.

Dean comes up with some pretty good one liners. In fact, we are often found going head-to-head with each other. Example: this morning, Dean told me "Mommy, stop being so bossy!" and I said, "You're the bossy one!" and Hudson said, "Stop bickering with our two-year old."

Anyway.

The other day Dean and I were in the car and he says to me, "I want to go to Meghan's house forEVER! And don't say nothing to me, Mommy, because it's MY PROBLEM!"

This is my toddler's version of running away from home, right? I wanted to have my feelings hurt, but I was laughing too hard to let it cut too deep.

I don't blame you, Dean. A life filled with your cousins and an aunt who lets you do whatever you want sounds lovely. Especially since that life is filled with Little Debbies and cheese balls and all the marshmallows you can handle.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

what we've been up to...

Here's the reader's digest of our summer
(minus all the barfing that is happening by yours truly).


Celebrating our 5th anniversary with a fab staycation!






Playing with new baby cousins Jones and McKay!

dimple butts make my heart smile.


Enjoying lots of family time

cute matching cousins


Saying goodbye to this handsome kid for 2 years...


enjoying our hilarious 2 year old



Spending time in Utah with family and friends



And, of course, your average, general goofiness brought to you by Dean.

bed head. have you ever seen anything better?


Welcoming this cute brother of mine home from his mission!!
Could you die? from the second T got home, Dean says "I wuv my Tywer."

Turning 26! (no old-lady jokes, please)

And we ended the summer with our annual Labor Day pool party.
Here's to an amazing Fall (with weather that is conducive to walking outside. pleaseandthankyou.)

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Pregnant!

We are so thrilled to announce my pregnancy with baby number two!
Dean is also excited, what with being a "big brudda" and all (his words).



Cravings:

Sonic tater tots
Xavier's burros
Baskin Robbin's Mint Chocolate Chip (no other brand will do)
Fruit
Fresh squeezed apple juice with ginger (good thing I got a juicer for my birthday!)
Krispy Kreme donuts
Velveeta Macaroni
Martinelli's with Sonic ice
As you can see, these are very specific requests. Go ahead and think it: Poor Hudson.